Tuesday, July 24, 2012
meizitang,the pursuit of superior is everyone inherent
Normal person once to experience the inferiority, he tries to compensate the shortage, and strive to perfect. It is the role of the compensation of psychological mechanism, the inferiority to become a lot of successful people enterprising power.
Lincoln was because his early is a bastard, look ugly behavior and lack of poise and inferiority sensitive, then he desperately self-taught, from education to to overcome the weakness, finally off and be humbled have prominent achievement of the President of the United States.
Visible, inferiority itself is not terrible, the key is we are faced with inferior should have the correct understanding and positive self compensation behavior. To get rid of inferiority, you must do the three points:
One is the must stop himself and others to unnecessary comparison, must understand and achieve: the purpose is to finish their goals, not in order to defeat others.
Second meizitang is must give up the ability to transcend the pursuit of superiority, that is to follow, open to his own weakness and inferiority, do not deceive ourselves.
Three is suffer setbacks and failures, don't complain, also don't despise self, to an objective analysis of the environment and their own conditions, so that you can find the psychological balance, just can be found everywhere in life is an opportunity. The inferiority strong can make the person becomes aggressive
Why when a person's inferiority complex is very strong, he may be a shy of the durst attitude and become an aggressive fighter? Austrian psychologist Adler has think, is in pursuit of the superior inferiority a normal position of the development process, the inferiority, meizitang,the pursuit of superior is everyone inherent.
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